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At various times I have been corrected for not thanking Him for the orgasm He allowed me to have. I have begun to thank Him for blows He gives me in certain contexts, He has not commented either way on this, or corrected when I do not. Of course, if you’re new to the world of being a submissive, it’s not as easy as going on Tinder to find the right match, says Coates. If he feels at anytime that I am going “vanilla” he will ask me to recite S.O.A.P.…. Reminding me to be mindful of my mouth and actions. I have found at my least submissive moments, I will look at S.O.A.P. and it will help me with my mindset. It may still be early days for Daniel, who has since had three or four domme-sub scenarios, having broken up with his long-term partner, but almost immediately after entering the world of BDSM he found that he was still in a minority overall.