Go the Way Your Blood Beats

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While Emmett eventually found his own chosen family, he still sees ableism everywhere in society – and says it’s rampant within the LGBTQ+ community too. I cannot put my feelings into words ... I am just very grateful that I was able to read his memoir and that he shared his story with us. The memoir’s strength lies in De Monterey’s ability to vividly depict the cultural nuances and complexities he encounters along the way. Through his evocative prose, readers are transported to distant lands, where they can almost taste the flavors, hear the sounds, and feel the emotions that permeate each chapter. The author’s keen observations and introspective reflections invite readers to question their own beliefs and biases, fostering a deeper appreciation for the diversity that enriches our global community.

Vivid, engaging... this insightful memoir sheds light on the author's life as a disabled gay man who is often rendered invisible' Andrew McMillan, Guardian Book of the DayGo the Way Your Blood Beats” is a compelling memoir that challenges societal norms, promotes inclusivity, and offers a profound exploration of the intersectionality of identity. Emmett de Monterey’s powerful storytelling ensures that readers will be captivated and moved by his experiences and the lessons they hold for us all. Critical Analysis Emmett in no way regrets the surgery – he says he wouldn’t be walking as well as he is today without it –but the experience was exhausting and emotionally draining for both him and his parents. Emmett de Monterey added: “I’m thrilled and delighted that Genesius Pictures will be developing my book for TV. I’ve admired the company ever since seeing their beautiful film ‘Mrs Lowry & Son,’ and am sure they will bring the same originality and sensitivity to telling my story.” Go the Way Your Blood Beats” offers a comprehensive overview of De Monterey’s personal journey, as he embarks on a series of transformative adventures across continents. From the bustling streets of Tokyo to the tranquil landscapes of South America, the author immerses himself in diverse cultures, encountering a myriad of people who challenge his preconceived notions and broaden his understanding of the world. The epilogue, which at first suggests a happy ending, confounds expectations when De Monterey is subjected to ableist abuse in a supermarket queue, making him realise that while his life may have moved on in many ways, some things haven’t. “Everything had changed, and nothing had. There was no choice but to keep walking,” he concludes, reminding the reader that change is only evident when it affects us all.

His diverse experiences have not only informed his writing but also have allowed him to bring a fresh and informed perspective to the themes he explores in his memoir, “Go the Way Your Blood Beats.”

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It sounds naive now but it hadn’t even occurred to me that there were other ways to be and that I could embrace being disabled as an identity. De Monterey, who is a trained psychotherapist, commented: “Writing this book has been a wonderful, rewarding experience. I’ve so enjoyed working with Isabel, who is a remarkable and sensitive editor. I’m thrilled it’s being published by Viking.”

Through his engaging prose, de Monterey invites readers to reflect on their own prejudices and biases, encouraging a deeper understanding of the experiences of those who exist outside societal norms. His memoir is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a call to embrace one’s true self, regardless of societal expectations. When the author responds that he has cerebral palsy, the guy’s reaction is swift and unpleasant: ‘You should be at home’ Melanie discusses the initial feelings she had hearing her son’s diagnosis, her path to finding acceptance and how connecting with others in similar situations opened her eyes and prompted her to write her debut book. The group discuss their own routes to acceptance and how building support networks with others was the life line that they all needed. Melanie spoke candidly about what she first struggled with, but also highlighted just how relieving it was to find others that she could relate so deeply to.

From an early age, de Monterey grappled with the realities of living with cerebral palsy, a condition that shaped his understanding of identity and difference. However, he refused to let his disability define him, instead using it as a wellspring of strength and inspiration for his writing.